LADIES CORNER: HOW TO MAKE HIM SAY SORRY
Ladies, did your guy made feel bad recently and you think he is at fault but he is not realizing it, or is he playing the smart one on you?. Don't stress yourself demanding apology verbally. Here are tips for you to safe you that stress of making him say sorry and realizing his mistakes.
- DON'T CALL HIM OR SEND HIM TEXT: Firstly, avoid calling him or sending him text. Just in case he calls you asking why you haven't called, text or replied his them, just give him a vague reply. Don't give him excuses. I repeat "Do not give him excuses" . If he is a nice guy indeed, he should be able to sense that you are in a bad mood due to the lull in your daily conversation.
- AVOID MEETING HIM TILL HE SAYS SORRY: Secondly, do everything possible not to meet him until he says he is sorry. Every time he asked you on a date give vague excuses as well without excuses. Let him take the initiative ti ask you why you are depressed.
- IGNORE HIS PRESENCE WHEN HE IS AROUND: Yes! You have to stop been your cheerful self when he is around. He might tried to make you smile with his charm, ignore it, brush it aside and remind him of the last fight.
- GIVE HIM A MONOSYLLABIC REPLY: Answering every of his questions with simple monosyllabic replies is another good way of letting him know that you are upset. Reply him with just simple "Yes" or "No" until he comes to his senses and realizes how bad you are feeling.
- USE YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA TO POUR OUT OUR ANGER: One of the best part of social media is that you can give people your piece of mind without mentioning their names. Don't be too specific just be subtle in writing your status. Use certain sentences like "I haven't been so Angry...ever", "I can't just remember the last time I was so Blue", "A few sweet words will make a lot to me right now" and many more... You know them(Smile)
- CANCEL A DATE WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND IN THE LAST MINUTE: Yes!!! lol!!! It can be annoying, but you don't have a choice. Since he seems not be realizing his mistakes you just have to do it. Always blame it on the fight or the way he shouted at you.
- SAY NO TO INTIMACY: If your effort to get him to say sorry is not working, start playing hard to get and stop certain physical intimacy. When he wants to kiss you, give him a hug instead...yep... a cold reply. When you sees that he making advances toward sex, tell him you are not just in the mood.
- DON'T BE RUDE TO HIM: Do not spoil the whole thing by being rude to him. The main purpose of this article is just for you to get emotionally detached for a while till he sensed he has really offended you.
- YOU CAN COAX AN APOLOGY OUT OF HIM: Ask him certain questions in order to know your stands in the relationship. Know if he truly cares by luring him to speak. Certain sentences like "You don't treat me the way you used to do before", "I feel like you don't care about me the way you used to when we first met", can really help.
- Above all, don't act pricey. Forgive him as soon as he realizes his mistakes.
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